tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1040481163267940609.post4346281742954018994..comments2012-12-10T01:05:04.231-08:00Comments on Kayla's Blog: Talking Point #9 Sex PositivityKayla Perdomohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12471727721977822473noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1040481163267940609.post-15363970134798990912012-12-01T20:07:57.077-08:002012-12-01T20:07:57.077-08:00True yes not all feminism aren't lesbians, and...True yes not all feminism aren't lesbians, and whoever started that saying is an idiot Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02738417886841752416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1040481163267940609.post-22879711368187496322012-11-05T08:37:36.625-08:002012-11-05T08:37:36.625-08:00I think "owning our desire" has a lot to...I think "owning our desire" has a lot to do with consent and rape. A person can be completely turned on, and sometimes those feelings can be hard to ignore and to deal with, but it's not okay to force sex on someone else for that reason. Incessantly asking for sex over and over is still a means of forcing someone. I think "owning our desire" means acknowledging that sexual feelings are there, but knowing what to do with them when the time is right, and understanding where one can go wrong. Also, not as many people know about the benefits of sex as you may think. A friend of mine is a "goddess" for Athena's (a sex toy store), and hosts educational events for those interested in learning more about sex, toys, etc. She was amazed by how few middle-aged women actually knew what their vaginas looked like, and what their clitoris was. I think we really need to do a better job of educating people on sex in general.Jen Albanesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16502459749272744187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1040481163267940609.post-48129465790600842852012-11-01T08:20:11.433-07:002012-11-01T08:20:11.433-07:00Wait, I'm not sure if I misread the second par...Wait, I'm not sure if I misread the second paragraph about slut-shaming? What White was saying was that even if someone takes a picture of themselves and people see it, that it's not a good thing to call them sluts because - basically - that's none of your business seeing as though it was her choice to do so in the first place. Slut-shaming = bad and always negative. Dauryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14377432164672753667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1040481163267940609.post-46367003839943758442012-10-31T14:24:52.347-07:002012-10-31T14:24:52.347-07:00I agree with you that some people bring it upon th...I agree with you that some people bring it upon themselves...but i guess that means we would be judging (someone sending pictures) that persons sexuality. Which is what these articles are trying to explain to us to avoid.<br /><br />maybe rather then slut shaming a person for doing that....we can just complain about the carelessness, thoughtlessness, and stupidity of people rather than their sluttiness for doing that. lol.courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00504411821516383708noreply@blogger.com